How should I prepare for a mediation session involving abandonment allegations? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, prepare by organizing facts that address what “abandonment” means—ending cohabitation willfully, without the other spouse’s consent, without justification, and with no intent to return. Also assess any adultery issues because “illicit sexual behavior” can affect alimony.…
What evidence do I need to show I left the marital home for just cause? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, you show “just cause” to leave by proving your spouse’s conduct made continued cohabitation unsafe or intolerable (for example, violence, threats, severe harassment, or serious infidelity-related misconduct) and that you left because…
Do adult heirs have to comply with executor requests for personal data without a court order? – North Carolina Short Answer Generally, no. In North Carolina, an adult heir does not have to give an executor passwords or other personal data just because the executor asks. If the heir holds estate property or records, the…
How can I challenge an executor’s request to access a deceased relative’s digital accounts? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, an executor cannot force you or another heir to hand over passwords. Access to a decedent’s digital accounts must follow state law, usually through requests to the account custodian under the Revised Uniform…
How does mediation work for resolving disputes in estate administration? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, the Clerk of Superior Court can order or the parties can agree to mediation to resolve estate disputes, including elective share issues. A certified mediator helps the parties negotiate in a confidential setting, and any deal must…
What is an elective share claim and how do I defend against it in probate? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, an elective share is a surviving spouse’s right to claim a minimum percentage of the decedent’s Total Net Assets, regardless of what the will says. The spouse must file a petition with…
Can an executor demand a physical item I inherited? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, an executor can seek the return of an item you received only if it still belongs to the estate or must be recovered to pay debts, taxes, allowances, or a spouse’s elective share. If the item was properly…
How do I set up a trust or escrow account to hold sale proceeds for estate distribution? – North Carolina Short Answer Under North Carolina’s small estate (collection by affidavit) process, you generally do not create a new trust or escrow. Instead, the affiant should open a separate, no‑commingling deposit account to hold collected funds,…
How can I close my parent’s bank accounts under a small estate affidavit in North Carolina? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, you close a decedent’s bank accounts by presenting a certified copy of a filed small estate affidavit (called an Affidavit for Collection) to each bank. The bank must release the funds…
What filing confirms asset distribution and closes a small estate? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, you close a small estate by filing the Final Affidavit, called the “Affidavit of Collection, Disbursement and Distribution” (AOC‑E‑204), with the Clerk of Superior Court in the county where the decedent lived. This filing reports what you…
