Short Answer

In North Carolina, you typically need: (1) a Health Care Power of Attorney, (2) a Living Will (Advance Directive), (3) a HIPAA authorization, (4) a Durable Financial Power of Attorney, and (5) written instructions for disposition of remains. If you want to streamline transfers and keep assets separate or outside probate, add a revocable living trust and align beneficiary and transfer-on-death designations.

Understanding the Problem

You’re asking what documents, beyond a will, control your health care decisions and your money if you cannot act. In North Carolina, the key decision is which documents let trusted people act for you during incapacity and immediately after death for limited medical matters. You have only adult children, so no minor guardianships are needed.

Apply the Law

North Carolina law separates end-of-life and medical decision-making from financial management. A Health Care Power of Attorney names an agent to make medical choices if you cannot. A Living Will states your wishes about life-prolonging measures. A HIPAA release allows providers to share your protected health information. A Durable Financial Power of Attorney authorizes an agent to handle your money and property while you’re alive (it ends at death). Some powers—like making gifts or changing beneficiaries—require express authority in the document, and real estate transactions often require recording the POA with the county Register of Deeds before an agent signs a deed. The main forum is private execution—not court—and timing matters because you must sign while competent.

Key Requirements

• Health Care Power of Attorney (HCPOA): You name a health care agent; you sign with two adult witnesses and a notary. The agent’s limited authority can continue after death for autopsy, anatomical gifts, and disposition of remains if granted.
• Living Will (Advance Directive): You state when to withhold or withdraw life-prolonging measures; you sign with two witnesses and a notary.
• HIPAA Authorization: Names who may receive your medical information so doctors and hospitals can communicate with loved ones and your agents.
• Durable Financial Power of Attorney: You sign before a notary; it’s durable by default (remains effective during incapacity). Include any “hot powers” you want your agent to have (e.g., gifts, beneficiary changes). For deeds, record the POA with the Register of Deeds before use.
• Disposition of Remains Instruction: You may designate who controls funeral/burial/cremation; this can be in your HCPOA or a separate writing.
• Revocable Living Trust/Nonprobate Setup (optional but common): Use a revocable trust and beneficiary/TOD designations to keep assets separate, target who inherits, and reduce probate.

What the Statutes Say

• N.C. Gen. Stat. § 32C-1-104 (Durability of power of attorney) – Financial POAs are durable unless they say otherwise.
• N.C. Gen. Stat. § 32A-20 (Health care power of attorney; effect) – HCPOA authority and limited post-death powers for autopsy, donation, and remains.
• N.C. Gen. Stat. § 90-321 (Advance directive for a natural death) – Living Will to accept or refuse life-prolonging measures.
• N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-420 (Disposition of remains) – Who may direct funeral and burial/cremation; a health care agent can have priority.

Analysis

Apply the Rule to the Facts: Because you have only adult children, you can focus on naming health care and financial agents rather than guardians. Sign a notarized Durable Financial POA with any specific powers you want (for example, handling co-owned real estate) and record it before using it for deeds. Sign an HCPOA, Living Will, and HIPAA release so your agents can act and access information. To keep inherited assets separate and avoid probate, fund a revocable trust and use beneficiary/TOD designations now; a POA ends at death.

Process & Timing

1. Who files: No court filing. Where: You sign before a notary (and two witnesses for HCPOA/Living Will). What: Health Care Power of Attorney, Living Will, HIPAA authorization, Durable Financial POA; optional disposition-of-remains instruction; optional revocable trust. When: Sign while you have capacity; do not wait for a health crisis.
2. If an agent must sign a deed for North Carolina property, record the POA with the county Register of Deeds first; coordinate with co-owners for any transfer of jointly held real estate.
3. Give copies to your agents, doctors, and financial institutions; consider filing your HC directives with the N.C. Secretary of State’s Advance Health Care Directive Registry and retitle/fund any revocable trust.

Exceptions & Pitfalls

• Banks and custodians may reject old or vague POAs; update your POA and include any express “hot powers” you want the agent to use (gifts, beneficiary/TOD changes, trust funding).
• A financial POA ends at death; fund trusts and complete beneficiary/TOD changes during life to avoid gaps.
• Real estate needs: record the POA before using it for deeds; an agent cannot transfer co-owned property without required co-owner consent.
• If a court later appoints a guardian, a guardian of the estate can revoke a financial POA; a guardian of the person may seek to suspend a health care agent by court order.
• Make sure your Living Will and HCPOA are consistent; unclear documents can delay treatment decisions.

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Disclaimer: This article provides general information about North Carolina law based on the single question stated above. It is not legal advice for your specific situation and does not create an attorney-client relationship. Laws, procedures, and local practice can change and may vary by county. If you have a deadline, act promptly and speak with a licensed North Carolina attorney.