Probate Q&A Series

How can I recover a loved one’s ashes and handle probate when they die outside North Carolina?

Detailed Answer

1. Repatriation of Ashes

When a loved one passes away outside North Carolina and undergoes cremation, you must secure proper documentation and permits to bring their ashes home. Follow these steps:

  • Obtain the original death certificate and the cremation certificate from the funeral home or crematory where the service occurred.
  • Engage a licensed North Carolina funeral director. Under N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-412, only a licensed funeral director may apply for a permit to transport human remains into North Carolina.
  • The funeral director submits the death and cremation certificates to the local health department to secure a transit permit. This permit authorizes shipment or personal conveyance of ashes into the state.
  • Once you receive the transit permit, choose a safe shipping method or personally carry the urn when returning to North Carolina.

2. Ancillary Probate in North Carolina

If your loved one owned real estate or other assets here, you must open an ancillary estate in North Carolina. This process runs parallel to any probate in the state where the death occurred:

  • Determine where the decedent owned property or held bank accounts. File a petition for ancillary administration in the clerk’s office of the county where those assets lie.
  • Under N.C. Gen. Stat. § 28A-11-1, request Letters of Administration—Ancillary. Include the out-of-state death certificate and certified copies of any domiciliary letters of administration.
  • Publish notice to creditors in the county’s legal organ and mail notice to known creditors. This step preserves rights to defend against late claims.
  • Settle valid creditor claims, file any required North Carolina estate tax returns, and pay taxes due.
  • Prepare and file a final account. Once the clerk approves it, distribute remaining assets to entitled heirs or beneficiaries and close the ancillary estate.

Key Steps to Recover Ashes and Handle Out-of-State Probate

  • Secure the death and cremation certificates.
  • Hire a North Carolina funeral director for a transit permit (N.C. Gen. Stat. § 130A-412).
  • Obtain and use the transit permit to move ashes into North Carolina.
  • Identify North Carolina assets and file for ancillary administration (N.C. Gen. Stat. § 28A-11-1).
  • Publish notice to creditors, handle claims, and pay state taxes.
  • File a final account, distribute assets, and close the ancillary estate.

Contact Pierce Law Group

Recovering ashes and winding up an out-of-state probate can feel overwhelming. Pierce Law Group has experienced attorneys who guide you through repatriation and ancillary administration under North Carolina law. Let us help you protect your family’s rights and honor your loved one’s memory. Email us or call (919) 341-7055 today.