Family Law Q&A Series

How do I prove a current marriage is invalid if my parent’s spouse never divorced a prior spouse? – North Carolina

Short Answer

In North Carolina, a marriage is void if either person had a living spouse at the time of the wedding (bigamy). But North Carolina courts strongly presume a later (second) marriage is valid, so proving invalidity usually requires more than suspicion or a statement that “no divorce happened.” The typical approach is to gather certified marriage records and then do a documented, diligent search for any divorce/annulment or death record that could have ended the earlier marriage, and if the evidence supports it, file a court action to have the marriage declared void.

Understanding the Problem

Under North Carolina family law, the key question is whether a parent’s spouse had a living husband or wife at the time the spouse married the parent. If so, the later marriage may be treated as invalid, which can affect whether the spouse can claim “spouse” status for property and inheritance purposes. The practical issue while the parent is still living is how to build proof that holds up in court, because North Carolina generally treats a ceremonial marriage as valid unless strong evidence shows it was not.

Apply the Law

North Carolina law treats a bigamous marriage as void, meaning it is considered invalid from the beginning if one party had a living spouse when the later marriage occurred. Even so, North Carolina applies a strong presumption that a later marriage is valid, which means the person challenging the marriage typically must prove the earlier marriage was still in effect at the time of the later wedding (not ended by divorce, annulment, or death). A district court can declare a marriage void in a direct court proceeding.

Key Requirements

  • Proof of the earlier marriage: Reliable evidence (usually certified records) showing the spouse was legally married to someone else before marrying the parent.
  • Proof the earlier marriage was still in effect on the later wedding date: Evidence showing there was no divorce/annulment judgment and no death ending the earlier marriage before the later marriage occurred.
  • A proper court proceeding in North Carolina: A direct action in the appropriate North Carolina court asking for a declaration that the marriage is void, supported by admissible records and testimony.

What the Statutes Say

Analysis

Apply the Rule to the Facts: The concern is that the spouse’s earlier marriage may not have ended before the spouse married the parent. Under North Carolina law, the key proof points are (1) the earlier marriage existed and (2) it was still legally in place on the date of the later marriage. Because North Carolina strongly presumes the later marriage is valid, the most effective “proof” is usually a documented records search showing no divorce/annulment (and no death) ended the earlier marriage before the later wedding date.

Process & Timing

  1. Gather baseline records: Who gathers: the parent (ideally) or the person challenging the marriage with counsel. Where: the Register of Deeds (for marriage records) and the Clerk of Superior Court (for court records) in the counties where events likely occurred. What: certified copies of (a) the spouse’s prior marriage record, (b) the parent/spouse marriage record, and (c) any name-change documentation if names differ across records.
  2. Do a documented “diligent search” for a divorce/annulment or death: Where: likely counties/states where either party to the earlier marriage lived, plus statewide indexes if available. What: certified “no record found” letters where possible, docket searches, and copies of any located divorce/annulment judgments or death certificates. This step matters because proving invalidity often means proving a negative, and courts expect a serious records search rather than assumptions.
  3. File a direct court action if the evidence supports it: Who files: typically a party with standing (often one of the spouses to the questioned marriage; in some situations, other interested parties may seek relief, but standing can be contested). Where: North Carolina District Court in the county with proper venue. What: a complaint requesting the marriage be declared void under North Carolina law, supported by certified records and witness testimony. Outcome/document: a court order declaring the marriage void (or denying the request if the proof is not sufficient).

Exceptions & Pitfalls

  • The “second marriage is valid” presumption: North Carolina generally presumes a later marriage is valid even if an earlier marriage is shown, so the challenge usually fails without strong, well-documented proof that no divorce/annulment or death ended the earlier marriage before the later wedding.
  • Only checking one person’s divorce history: Evidence that the spouse did not file for divorce may not be enough by itself, because the prior spouse could have filed elsewhere. A broader search is often needed.
  • Record and identity mismatches: Name changes, misspellings, and different counties/states can hide a divorce record. A careful search plan (including aliases and prior addresses) often matters as much as the legal theory.
  • Property planning limits: Even if the parent has a will naming a child as executor/beneficiary, spousal rights can still complicate administration if the marriage is treated as valid. Title to the home also depends on how the deed is written; a will does not automatically control property that passes by survivorship.

Conclusion

In North Carolina, a marriage is void if a spouse had a living husband or wife at the time of the wedding, but courts strongly presume the later marriage is valid unless strong evidence proves the earlier marriage was still in effect. The most effective way to prove invalidity is to obtain certified marriage records and complete a documented, diligent search for any divorce, annulment, or death ending the earlier marriage before the later wedding date. The next step is to file an action in North Carolina District Court to have the marriage declared void while the parent is still living.

Talk to a Family Law Attorney

If a parent’s spouse may have had a prior undissolved marriage and there is concern about spousal rights affecting a home or an estate plan, a North Carolina family law attorney can help map out the records search, evaluate proof, and decide whether a court filing is appropriate. Call us today at [919-341-7055].

Disclaimer: This article provides general information about North Carolina law based on the single question stated above. It is not legal advice for your specific situation and does not create an attorney-client relationship. Laws, procedures, and local practice can change and may vary by county. If you have a deadline, act promptly and speak with a licensed North Carolina attorney.