How do I handle custody and a temporary school arrangement when my child is staying with a relative in a different county? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, a parent can ask the District Court for a temporary custody order that clearly states where the child will live during the school year, who…
What other ways are there to serve someone who is avoiding service or moving around? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina family law cases, if someone is avoiding service or is hard to locate, the next options usually include service by certified mail (or a designated delivery service), substituted service at the person’s…
What is the difference between an absolute divorce and a regular divorce, and why might the other party switch it at the last minute? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, “absolute divorce” is the standard court judgment that ends the marriage and changes both spouses’ legal status from married to single. People often…
How do I start the divorce process in my county? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, the divorce process usually starts by filing a verified divorce complaint (and a civil summons) with the Clerk of Superior Court in the county where either spouse lives. After filing, the other spouse must be properly served…
Can a judge approve a consent custody order without a hearing, and how long does that usually take? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, a judge can sometimes sign a consent custody order without holding a live hearing, but it is not automatic. The judge still has an independent duty to protect the…
How do I start or change a child support case in my county? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, a child support case usually starts by filing a child support claim in District Court (often through the Clerk of Superior Court) in the county where a parent or the child lives or is…
How can I move out and start the separation without it being treated as abandonment, and what notice should I give? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, moving out to start a separation is usually allowed and does not automatically count as “abandonment.” The main risk comes up if the move-out looks like…
Do I need to sign and notarize the cover worksheet too, or only the affidavit of marriage? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, the notarization requirement usually applies to the affidavit of marriage (the sworn statement), not to a cover worksheet. A cover worksheet is typically an administrative filing sheet used to route…
What happens if I cannot find a local attorney who accepts my legal plan? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, if no local family law attorney accepts a workplace legal plan, the case does not pause. The practical result is usually one of three paths: (1) hire a lawyer outside the plan and…
What can I do if the other parent is not paying the child support that was ordered? – North Carolina Short Answer In North Carolina, when a parent does not pay court-ordered child support, the usual next step is to ask the court (or the child support enforcement agency in a IV-D case) to enforce…
