Family Law Q&A Series

Can my spouse claim part of my house if I bought it before we got married and it’s only in my name? – North Carolina

Short Answer

Usually not the house itself. In North Carolina, a home owned before marriage and kept titled only in one spouse’s name generally starts as that spouse’s separate property and is not divided in equitable distribution.

However, a spouse may still claim a marital interest in any equity or value increase created during the marriage if marital money or marital efforts paid down the mortgage principal or funded value-adding improvements.

Understanding the Problem

In North Carolina divorce cases, a common question is whether a spouse can claim part of a house that the other spouse bought before the marriage and kept only in that spouse’s name. The decision point is whether the home stayed separate throughout the marriage, or whether the marriage created a shareable interest through payments, improvements, or a change in how the property was titled. This issue is usually decided in an equitable distribution case in District Court.

Apply the Law

North Carolina uses equitable distribution to divide marital property and divisible property, while generally returning separate property to its owner. A house owned before marriage is typically separate property at the start. But if the marriage contributes to building equity (for example, paying down principal) or increases value through improvements, the court may treat that marriage-created portion as marital and account for it when dividing property.

Key Requirements

  • Classification (separate vs. marital): A home owned before marriage is generally separate property, but the court can classify part of the home (often the marriage-created equity) as marital if the evidence supports it.
  • Marital contribution during the marriage: Mortgage principal reduction using marital income, or improvements/repairs paid for with marital funds or performed through marital labor, can create a marital interest tied to the increase in equity or value.
  • Proof and tracing: The outcome often turns on records showing what the home was worth and what the loan balance was at marriage, what was paid during marriage (especially principal), and whether improvements increased fair market value (not just routine upkeep).

What the Statutes Say

Analysis

Apply the Rule to the Facts: Here, the home was owned by one spouse before the relationship and stayed titled only in that spouse’s name. Under North Carolina law, that usually supports classifying the home as separate property. The remaining question is whether anything during the marriage created a marital share—most commonly, marital income used to pay down mortgage principal or marital funds/labor used for improvements that increased the home’s value.

Process & Timing

  1. Who files: Either spouse. Where: North Carolina District Court (typically in the county where at least one spouse resides). What: A claim for equitable distribution (often filed with other divorce-related claims). When: An equitable distribution claim can be filed after the spouses begin living separate and apart.
  2. Financial disclosures: After an equitable distribution claim is served, the spouse who first asserted the claim generally must serve an equitable distribution inventory affidavit within 90 days, and the other spouse generally must respond with an inventory affidavit within 30 days after service of the first affidavit (extensions can be allowed for good cause).
  3. Classification, valuation, and distribution: The court classifies the home (separate vs. marital/mixed), values the marital/divisible portions under the statutory framework, and then enters an order distributing marital/divisible property (sometimes by awarding the house to one spouse and offsetting with other assets or a distributive award).

Exceptions & Pitfalls

  • Mortgage payments are not all the same: Payments that reduce principal are more likely to create a marital interest than payments that only cover interest, taxes, or insurance. Missing statements can make it hard to prove what happened.
  • Improvements vs. upkeep: Value-adding improvements may support a marital claim, but routine maintenance often does not. The issue is usually whether the work increased fair market value, not whether money was spent.
  • Mixed-property math and documentation: When separate and marital contributions both exist, the home can become a mixed asset. Courts often need clear evidence of the home’s value and debt at key points (marriage, separation, and sometimes distribution). Lack of records can shift leverage in settlement and trial.
  • Title changes can change everything: If the owner spouse later deeds the home into both spouses’ names (for example, as tenants by the entirety), that can create strong arguments that the property became marital. Deed language and surrounding documents can matter.

Conclusion

In North Carolina, a house bought before marriage and kept only in one spouse’s name usually remains that spouse’s separate property and is not divided in equitable distribution. But a spouse may still claim a share of the marriage-created equity or value increase if marital funds or marital efforts paid down principal or funded value-adding improvements. The practical next step is to file an equitable distribution claim in District Court and be ready to exchange inventory affidavits (often within 90 days and 30 days after service) supported by mortgage and improvement records.

Talk to a Family Law Attorney

If a divorce is coming up and a spouse is claiming a share of a home owned before marriage, our firm has experienced attorneys who can help clarify what is separate, what may be marital, and what deadlines apply in an equitable distribution case. Call us today at (919) 341-7055.

Disclaimer: This article provides general information about North Carolina law based on the single question stated above. It is not legal advice for your specific situation and does not create an attorney-client relationship. Laws, procedures, and local practice can change and may vary by county. If you have a deadline, act promptly and speak with a licensed North Carolina attorney.