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Probate Q&A Series

How can I challenge a power of attorney signed when my parent had dementia? – North Carolina

Short Answer

In North Carolina, a power of attorney (POA) signed when a parent had dementia can be challenged by asking a court to review whether the parent had legal capacity at the time of signing and whether the agent later abused the role. If the parent has died, the person who usually has the clearest standing to bring the case is the estate’s personal representative (executor/administrator). A successful challenge often focuses less on the dementia diagnosis itself and more on proof about the parent’s decision-making ability on the signing date and the agent’s financial conduct under the POA.

Understanding the Problem

In North Carolina probate and fiduciary disputes, the central question is: can a family member undo or neutralize a power of attorney that was signed while a parent was living with dementia, when another relative later used that document to control money and decisions. This issue usually turns on what the parent understood at the moment the power of attorney was executed and whether the agent used the authority for the parent’s benefit, not the agent’s benefit. The practical trigger is the date the power of attorney was signed and the period of time the agent acted under it, especially if the parent later died and questions exist about a changed will or unusual financial transactions.

Apply the Law

North Carolina treats a power of attorney as a document that can give an “agent” broad authority over another person’s property and finances. Dementia does not automatically void a power of attorney; the key issue is whether the principal had enough capacity to understand what the document did when it was signed. Separately, even if the power of attorney was valid, the agent still must act like a fiduciary—meaning the agent must act in the principal’s best interest and handle the principal’s money carefully. Disputes are commonly handled in the Clerk of Superior Court’s office for estate and guardianship matters, and in Superior Court for certain contested proceedings.

Key Requirements

  • Standing to bring the case: The person filing must be legally allowed to ask the court for relief; after death, this is often the estate’s personal representative, though other “interested” people may sometimes qualify depending on the specific request and posture of the case.
  • Proof tied to the signing date: Evidence must focus on the parent’s understanding when the power of attorney was executed (capacity), not just the general diagnosis of dementia.
  • Proof of misuse or breach of duty (if challenging the agent’s actions): Evidence should identify questionable transactions or decisions and connect them to the agent’s obligations to act for the parent’s benefit and keep appropriate records.

What the Statutes Say

Analysis

Apply the Rule to the Facts: The facts describe a parent who had years of dementia, a relative who obtained a power of attorney after a lawyer said the parent had capacity, and later control of finances and decisions. Under North Carolina law, the important capacity question is what the parent understood on the signing date, so useful evidence often includes medical records close in time to signing, witness accounts about confusion or orientation, and the circumstances of the signing itself. Even if the document was valid, the agent’s later control of finances can still be challenged if records show self-dealing, missing documentation, or transactions that did not benefit the parent.

Process & Timing

  1. Who files: Usually the estate’s personal representative after death; in some cases another interested person may file depending on the relief sought. Where: Commonly in the Clerk of Superior Court for estate-related proceedings; some disputes may proceed in Superior Court if they become contested civil litigation. What: A petition seeking judicial relief related to the power of attorney and the agent’s conduct (often requesting an accounting and orders limiting or unwinding transactions). When: File as soon as suspicious transactions are discovered, because delays can make records harder to obtain and can complicate recovery.
  2. Evidence phase: Gather the signed power of attorney, bank and brokerage statements, deeds, beneficiary change records, and medical records around the execution date; identify witnesses to the signing and to the parent’s functioning near that time.
  3. Relief phase: The court can order production of records and may issue orders addressing the agent’s duties, and in appropriate cases can unwind or address transactions that resulted from improper conduct.

Exceptions & Pitfalls

  • Dementia is not the same as legal incapacity: A diagnosis can support a challenge, but the case usually rises or falls on proof of understanding at the moment of signing.
  • Wrong party brings the case: After death, courts often expect the estate’s personal representative (executor/administrator) to pursue claims; family members may need to address who has authority to sue before litigating the POA issues.
  • Mixing issues without a plan: A POA dispute, a guardianship (while living), and a will caveat have different procedures and forums; filing the wrong action first can create delay or procedural problems.
  • Record loss and tracing problems: Waiting can lead to missing statements, closed accounts, or sold property, making it harder to trace transactions and prove misuse.

Conclusion

In North Carolina, challenging a power of attorney signed during dementia usually requires proof that the parent lacked capacity on the signing date or that the agent later breached fiduciary duties while using the document. After death, the estate’s personal representative commonly has the clearest authority to bring the claim and demand records. When a suspected new or changed will is also involved, the safest next step is to file the appropriate court petition promptly and, if a will has been probated, evaluate whether a caveat must be filed within three years.

Talk to a Probate Attorney

If a family member used a power of attorney during a parent’s dementia and the transactions do not look right, experienced attorneys can help sort out who has authority to sue, what records to gather, and what deadlines may apply. Call us today at (919) 341-7055.

Disclaimer: This article provides general information about North Carolina law based on the single question stated above. It is not legal advice for your specific situation and does not create an attorney-client relationship. Laws, procedures, and local practice can change and may vary by county. If you have a deadline, act promptly and speak with a licensed North Carolina attorney.

Category: Probate Q&A Series

Author: jpierce

Attorney Jared Pierce is the founder of Pierce Law Group in Raleigh, North Carolina, a firm he established with a dedicated focus on probate administration and estate planning across North Carolina. Born and raised in the Republic of South Africa, Jared moved to Durham with his family in 2001, bringing with him a rich cultural background and a distinctive accent that often serves as a conversation starter.